I see people like her all the time.
Just woke up to things recently. A year to 3 years. Newbies. They are overwhelmed and frustrated on top of shocked and disgusted.
It might be helpful for her to consider those of us who have been fully aware for much longer. She thinks it's tough to be aware for a couple years. Life has been far more difficult for those of us who have been aware for so much longer. If it wasn't for the work we did, she wouldn't have been informed.