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We have been taught that we cannot have what we want because we are evil and so when u want something from your heart, it must mean that you are bad, or greedy or something, but that's not how it works. Fear feels bad for a reason and the reason is that God feels good, always. So rejection = fear. ("What if she says no? Does that mean I am a failure or unlovable?" No, it doesn't because the bad feeling thoughts come from fear/pinching off God's love. What if she says no, but I know that I'm awesome and my value and self worth don't come from what someone else thinks about me, even if it's my crush, then her loss.) So, you have to get right with God first, meaning, get out of fear and love yourself first. Focus on all the awesome things about you and why you are a great catch. (Gosh darnit, and people like you.) You don't try to sell something by listing everything you don't like about it, (that's what we do when we like someone and put them above us on a pedestal n then they run) And so you focus on all it's great qualities and why someone would want to buy it. Next, you spend however long it takes to think about already havin been on a date with her (and now she's psycho-texting you, just kidding. falls_off_chair_keking.jpg) but you focus on how you will feel knowing you got what you wanted. You are a winner. Get out of fear. Fear says you are a loser, etc. (You should be gradually shifting from fear to faith and feeling better about asking her out. If you are starting to feel better about asking her out, then it means you are shifting out of fear and that is where you want to be. You want to have a sound mind full of God;s clairty.) You can't fool God, though. If you want her to say yes, you have to believe that she will and don't do anything until you are confident you can have her. By moving from fear to faith, and not jumping into action until you are steady out of fear, God will have shown you exactly what to say to her to ask her out and it will be easier than you anticipated. BUT only when you are knowing your self worth and how awesome you are and you've steadied yourself out of fear. You'll see God showing you things. It sort of feels like you are tripping because we have been programmed to fear and you will be having new thoughts you have not had before about this situation. He can't show u when in fear, tho, fear blocks it. You have to tune your radio to the result u want.

You got this, fren.

(If for some reason she says no, it doesn't mean she won't change her mind or that there's something wrong with u, things can change. Just maintain your self love n value, knowing God will bring u the right one.)

I know… so much text, faggot, but you asked how.