Anonymous ID: 2ffea3 Sept. 19, 2023, 3:05 p.m. No.19578866   🗄️.is 🔗kun

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In my life, I have given a fuck about many people and many things. I have also not given a fuck about many people and many things. And like the road not taken, it was the fucks not given that made all the difference.

Anonymous ID: 2ffea3 Sept. 19, 2023, 3:12 p.m. No.19578891   🗄️.is 🔗kun

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Because when we give too many fucks, when we choose to give a fuck about everything, then we feel as though we are perpetually entitled to feel comfortable and happy at all times, that’s when life fucks us.

Anonymous ID: 2ffea3 Sept. 19, 2023, 3:17 p.m. No.19578915   🗄️.is 🔗kun   >>8934 >>8937 >>8941 >>8945

Because here’s the thing that’s wrong with all of the “How to Be Happy” shit that’s been shared eight million times on Facebook in the past few years—here’s what nobody realizes about all of this crap: The desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience. And, paradoxically, the acceptance of one’s negative experience is itself a positive experience. This is a total mind-fuck. So I’ll give you a minute to unpretzel your brain and maybe read that again: Wanting positive experience is a negative experience; accepting negative experience is a positive experience. It’s what the philosopher Alan Watts used to refer to as “the backwards law”—the idea that the more you pursue feeling better all the time, the less satisfied you become, as pursuing something only reinforces the fact that you lack it in the first place.

Anonymous ID: 2ffea3 Sept. 19, 2023, 3:30 p.m. No.19578976   🗄️.is 🔗kun   >>8985 >>9062 >>9066

Essentially, we become more selective about the fucks we're willing to give. This is something called maturity. It's nice; you should try it sometime. Maturity is what happens when one learns to only give a fuck about what's truly fuck-worthy. As Bunk Moreland said to his partner Detective McNulty in THE WIRE: "That's what you get for giving a fuck when it wasn't your turn to give a fuck.