>>1963578 The problem with normalizing “anything goes so long as it is with consenting adults” is that is an impossible boundary to maintain. It never stays between two consenting adults of equal power. It certainly leaks over to young people, even kids, who aren’t remotely mature enough to be able to set boundaries and we all know if they see big sister sleeping around, getting attention, lots of boyfriends, little sis isn’t going to wait until SHE is 26, 27. She’ll start defining herself, her worth by her sexuality. It happens all the time. I worked with poor families for many years and a horrid fact pattern I saw, all the time, were young single moms who naturally wanted to date. Infatuation and being “in love” takes up an enormous amount of energy, distracting mom but the kids are watching and seeing what sort of thing makes her happy and excited. But it is a terrible road for young kids to go down and they lose a bit of their soul with each jerk who takes advantage of them. “Everything goes” doesn’t stay behind closed doors. If. If normalized, it is everywhere - videos, music, movies, clothing, etc. The very first generation of kids who grow up with that start tearing down the boundaries and 2-3 generations down that road, the boundaries are gone. How many kids, these days, know the charm and delight of a good night kiss at the door? A lot of them have been cruising hardcore internet porn since they were 13.