Trying to understand someone reduces them into an object. It’s demeaning in a way.

Rather we are to figure out ourself. In this knowing, the knower, and the known become one.

Who do you think you are?

Once you love yourself then you will love others as yourself.

“At that day ye shall know that I am in my Father, and ye in me, and I in you.”

‭‭John‬ ‭14‬:‭20‬ ‭KJV‬‬