The high school friend that Ramos harassed and stalked is Lori Sondervan, I do believe. News reports won’t give her name, but if you read court filings and his twitter, you can find her name.
In the original story the Capital Gazette did on Ramos is 2011, it says about what Sondervan told the reporter about Ramos:
“He was having some problems, so she wrote back and tried to help, suggesting a counseling center.”
https://www.scribd.com/document/382886019/Jarrod-Wants-to-Be-Your-Friend-The-Capital
I can definitely understand and agree with someone recommending a psycho getting counseling, but does anybody find it odd that she would recommend a PLACE to get counseling.