Try understanding both perspectives of that of a man and a woman. Literally!
The concept of being masculine and feminine swirls around in your head, trying to categorize it within the grand scope of the "things". You have experienced an undeniable passion for and with both. That concept makes you understand the dilemma of infinity and the creation of time and space for us to experience that conundrum.
It must have something to do with the "Entanglement" problem.