I would imagine she’d prefer to have her legs back. Who knows how long it took them to save for that vacation. This lady is going to be having a rough time for a long while.
I hardly think you can equate skydiving & race car driving to taking a vacation. She’s in for a long recovery time. Her legs are gone. There is a difference in mooching and someone setting up a Go Fund me page for you in the middle of a tragedy. It’s all voluntary. I’ve given to several myself.