>all you do is end up yelling at the wind
My wife tell me all the time, all I am doing is throwing dirt on our graves. I understand that perspective but I remind her that I was invited to work for Soloman Brothers to start on 9/10/01 which occupied the floor under Cantor Fitzgerald where the first plane hit, and occupied most of building 7. So I was on their hit list already. It was God's Will and Grace that I was delayed to take the offer.