That's the problem with words, you can mental gymnastics around it to get your way if you're clever enough. Violence (something absolute) is the only answer in these manners.
Leaving something behind for anyone to find and giving something to someone with a certain intention are two different things. It's how they say things with so much confidence. It's a self mind-trick that makes it easier to lie.
Kind of like how Biden says, no you are the one that stole that money!, because you are allowing him to get away with it.
Words in War are only useful to demoralize tbh. That's about as far as that goes.
But I mean getting your enemy to kill themselves with words alone is a powerful tool for sure.
It's a stare of jealousy / envy. Best way to get rid of it is to look at a bird in flight and give it the bad energy to take it away from you. Just saying it is enough "bird, take this bad energy away from me, thank you".
Or just stare at the person right back and imagine you are slicing them in half with a Lightsaber. That's what I do.