Sounds like a Quest worthy of Legend.
Better to ask:
Where do you isolate a woman from modern divisive propaganda long enough for good sense to set in.
Ladies are the target, as even the strongest men bow to their will.
Conditions must change for the better, as the ladies are motivated by heartfelt insecurities promoted by media.
I would suggest establishing the ability to inspire heartfelt confidence and pride through achievement of safe comfort and positive spirit.
Do it for yourself, first, setting a good example.
That way, you have an option to being drug down by a companion constantly reverting to the cabal institutions of degrading social pressure. Remember that it is aimed at her, in order to control you.
With your actions, practice good sense.
Those of same will be attracted, those without will be repulsed.
Know and respect yourself first. Do things that you enjoy and that make you happy. You will find her doing the same.
Avoid those "living for my kids, they are my life".
All we can do is set good example, and some have no life and neither will their children, except the lives of those near them.
Of course, be tender and understanding, firm and flexible. Avoid the fake and superficial.
Good Luck in the Field, Anon.