All part of the concept called freewill
Obviously your new here. So allow me to welcome you with this.
Get wrecked snowflake. Your feeling have no meaning here
The greater the adversity one faces can bring about even greater development of our souls.
Hard and complicated lives should be strives for. Even prayed for.
Nothing will be put on our plate that we are not capable of overcoming.
Advancement, understanding, figuring out that which we are being forced to understand