Stormy, hope this message finds you well. All living things are subject to change, and as such, consider that neither of you are the same people you were. To understand is to forgive and that must include oneself and others if you see that change. We are all here for a short while, the only time we have is now. To take into consideration the world at large and the current sufferings is to take advantage of now. I can assure you that if you move in that direction even more will be given because God's plan is changing the world for the better. To consider other's first is creating something greater than oneself. Serving God is serving justice and anyone can participate in that; now.