When I was 27 I, a white woman, was raped by 3 black men. Well two 17yo and an 18 yo. I feel like they are victims as well as myself. 1 made a deal and the other 2 are serving life sentences with no parole. They grew up without a chance. They were never taught to be humans. I pray for them and forgive them. I struggled tremendously but eventually this brought me closer to Christ. My son who was 5 at the time and is now 20 is the one who really got the shit end of the deal bc he had to grow up with me trying to heal from this.