I've been enjoying the R thread from the beginning as well.
But reading your post, I cannot help feeling embarrassed
at the arrogance displayed.
It is us newfags (and most here in this shallow side thread
are just that) entering some else's turf.
I hope you will take the time and read this >>1838738,
and then maybe take some more time to investigate
why those who've been here long before us are what they are.
(I read one of their stories of abandonment and abuse,
and I've called them the "lost boys" since.)
Anyway, what I'm saying –
how about US being more loving by
→ first FORGIVING those we perceived wronged us
→ and no longer JUDGING those who are different from what we want them to be
→ and finally LEAVING the fate of this board up to Q???