>>21034871

There is nothing wrong with anal sex if both parties enjoy it.

You have been very honest with him about not enjoying it and it being downright traumatic.

The fact that he is still pushing it after your confession means he really doesn't care about your feelings.

Him saying that he asked the girlfriend to send pictures just to degrade her is concerning.

He says he wants you to do it to please him, but he did it to her to be degrading?!

So why is it not degrading when he's asking you to do it? Especially when he knows you don't enjoy it.

He pretty much admitted that this is a straight up Power play and not about sex.

I say you two are not a good match. This is not a good relationship for you.

>>21034949

Sweetheart, any man who pushes you for a sex act you've said no to is abusive.

Any man who pushes you to do a sex act that he knows has been used as a form of sexual abuse/rape on you is dangerously abusive.

This is horrifying to read.

Everything about this is so wrong.

Plenty of women are actual BDSM submissives who don't do anal.

He wants you to be submissive without caring if that's your thing or not.

That's abusive and not how true Doms operate. Sadly, men like your bf just seem to be able to sniff out abuse survivors like a shark smells blood.

They know you've been made scared to say not to men (I'm 100% blaming them, not you, I hasten to add).

You're so young.

Please dump him, get some therapy for the hideous abuse you've suffered previously and then,

when you're in the right headspace, you will find a lovely man who only wants you to be happy in bed, and out of it.

>>21034968

NTAH, never the AH for saying NO.

You don't need this man nor want this man.

He's going to keep wearing at you until you give or leave him, and it's beyond manipulation for him to keep asking for it

Leave for your own mental health and please some therapy, he can't hurt you anymore, and you're allowed to have off-limits.

Everyone does.

>>21035040

Yeah, no honey.

Anal can be great, but it's a two player game. Dump his ass.

He doesn't respect you or your body.

If he did he would never nag you about this and certainly not after you told him you'd been raped. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩