>>21034824

Robotexts and spam messages are an unpleasant fact, just like robocalls and junk email.

They may not be as invasive as a spam call, since you can largely ignore them, but that doesn't make them harmless.

Some phone plans may charge you for incoming text messages and smishing (SMS phishing) attacks can be even more dangerous if you're not careful.

However, you don’t have to put up with them.

Just as you can fight against robocalls and unwanted email, you can block and stop robotexts with the right tricks and tools.

On an Android phone, you can disable all potential spam messages from Google's Messages app.

Tap the profile icon in the upper right of the app and select Messages Settings, then tap Spam protection.

Turn on the Enable spam protection switch, and your phone will now alert you if an incoming message is suspected of being spam.

On an iPhone, you can open Settings Messages, and then turn on the switch next to Filter Unknown Senders.

This will filter messages from unknown senders into their own folder within the Apple Messages

>>21034865

To set up SMS spam blocking on an Android phone, go to Settings and select SMS Spam Recognition.

Though the feature can’t stop SMS spam from reaching you entirely, it will alert you if a text message is tagged as spam so that you can determine whether to respond or ignore it.

On an iPhone, go to Settings Messages > Unknown & Spam. In the SMS Filtering section, turn on the switch next to RoboKiller.

If a message is deemed to be spam, RoboKiller moves it to the SMS Junk folder in the Messages app where you can review it.

>>21034925

OK first thing tomorrow look for therapists who specialize in SA survivors and make an appointment.

Next, tell this loser boyfriend who "needs" to make you submit and degrade you and is trying to coerce you into sexual activity that you don't want

(which FYI is sexual assault/abuse) that your done and block him on every platform and device.

You deserve a good man who doesn't need to degrade you to feel good about himself.

NTA but get some help to heal your past trauma before starting another relationship.

>>21034914

It is perfectly fine to have boundaries, sexual or otherwise.

Not respecting those boundaries is not OK. He wants you to give in because he wants to assert dominance.

That's not an unusual kink, but it obviously is not your thing.

Tell your boyfriend very clearly that anal is off the table permanently, and it needs to not come up again. If he can't abide by that,

if he needs those things to be happy, then it is time to move on, because in that case it would seem his happiness depends on your unhappiness.

That's never good in a relationship.

NTA.

>>21034944

Are you not disgusted?

What more dehumanizing weirdo shit does he have to push on you while you literally break down about your very valid trauma in front of him?

Please protect and love yourself.

>>21034989

Him repeatedly asking you for a sex act that you don’t want to do is a red flag. 🚩

Him asking you for the sex act for the reason that he is (submissive/degrade) is a MASSIVE red flag. 🚩🚩🚩

You need to learn to spot these red flags in someone and then walk away when you see them, otherwise you will end up in another horribly abusive relationship.

Please break up with him. And consider getting therapy if you haven’t already.

>>21035015

ABSOLUTELY NOT.

Tell him that it’s never gonna happen, and if he’s not okay with that, leave the relationship.

>>21035016

Ask HIM to do anal for exactly the same reasons

So that it’s just a submissive thing and you want him to give himself up to you,

And you want to degrade him by doing that etc.

>>21035017

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