>The God in the Bible that orders women and children slaughtered?
FAFO.
>That says it’s okay to rape women
Rape is always frowned upon. Literally the entire tribe of Benjamin got wiped out and the remaining were exiled over this. You will notice reading through History that empires always fall at the point where they start fucking and raping kids / women. Bible clearly states if you take enemy women you should marry them and treat them well.