She acts like the graves were desecrated and head tones overturned. When a ship travels through the waters it makes small waves, after it is gone, it is as it was never there and no sign is left. What these gold star families did was not with the intent to desecrate but notify all on the consequences of failed policy and leadership in order for it to save the lives of current serving members so that the public will take heed on who the next CiC will be.