I want to give a little bit of help and guidance to my fellow young adult male anons… I'm an Oldfag IRL… well, somewhat… Mid 40s… I have 5 kids, ages 6 to 14… and I'd like to share with you all something that I think is very important.

There has been a concerted effort from the leftist SJW types to destroy anything having to do with traditionalism… traditional gender roles, traditional values, etc… They want men to become women (Transgender movement), they want women to behave like men (sexual revolution, modern feminism)… they want to blur all the lines, and destroy what WORKS and replace it with dysfunction.

I have never seen in all my life, as much confusion and pain in young men as I have seen in the last 2 years or so. Young men, who are trying DESPERATELY to figure out where they belong in the world… what they need to do, to get laid, get married, have a stable relationship, etc… I see men being made into beta cucks, because they think that's what women want, and they think that's the only way they will be able to find love and happiness in our modern mixed up world.

I'm here to tell you… I was seduced by that crap in my 20s as well… but about 5 or 6 years ago, I broke out of it. My marriage almost ended… I literally had to tell my wife that I was going to divorce her if things didn't change.

And boy have things changed.

Here's the deal, young guns… Women NATURALLY desire to be provided for… they desire a "strong man". They go for the "bad boys" because those are the men that show they have authority and power.

The video I embed here is related to this.

Part of the lyrics of this song… "you need someone, older and wiser, telling you what to do." It's true. Women WANT this…

But there's a huge caveat to all of this.

You have to be worthy of her trust and respect. You have to be a real man, who CAN provide for her and protect her. You can't fake that shit.

You have to be confident, you have to be "large and in charge"… you have to be willing to tell her "no" whenever she needs to be told "no".

Here's an example of the attitude you need to have with women. You know the old relationship squabble about going out to eat, right?

Man: "Where do you want to go out to eat?"

Woman: "Oh, I don't really care. YOU pick!"

Man: "Okay, how about Olive Garden?"

Woman: "Hmmmm… naw, I'm not really in the mood for Italian."

Man: "How about Outback?"

Woman: "Naw… "

Man: "How about Red Lobster?"

Woman: "Naw…"

Man: "Well then WHERE SHOULD WE GO!?!?"

Woman: "It doesn't really matter to me… just not THOSE places.. YOU pick."

See fellas… that's what you call a "shit test". The woman is testing you to see how much of her SHIT you'll put up with before you put her in her place.

Here's how you handle that…

Man: "Where do you wanna to go out to eat tonight?"

Woman: "I don't care, you pick!"

Man: "Okay, we're going to Olive Garden".

Woman: "Naw, I'm not really in the mood for Italian."

Man: "Oh, I wasn't asking for your opinion. I AM GOING to Olive Garden… If you want to go too, that's great… but if you don't want to go, fine, stay home. But I AM GOING."

Woman: (((Wets her panties because you took control and shut her down)))

Seriously… that's all there is to it. But you'll notice in that scenario, you have to be WILLING to leave her behind! If you're willing to do that, she loses all the power. There is no argument, because she can't control you… and if she decides to stay home, GO OUT WITHOUT HER… let her stew in her own juices for a while… Come home, and say nothing about it.

That's the secret to relationships right there, fellas. You have your plan, You execute YOUR plan… and you invite a woman along to follow you down the path you've chosen.

If she tries to deflect you off that path… leave her behind. If she's able to deflect you from your path, you'll only end up resenting her and the relationship is toast anyway… so you might as well stick to your plan.

Your job, as a man, is to make yourself the best man you can be, follow your own path in life, and INVITE A WOMAN TO WALK ALONG WITH YOU DOWN YOUR PATH… but it has to be YOUR path… NOT HERS!

If you walk down HER path, it will wander, meander, and end up at a dead end… and you'll resent her for it… and she'll NEVER respect you enough because you'll be nothing but a weak spineless manboy in her eyes eventually.

So yeah… that's my advice for y'all… :)

>>2160677

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>>2160703

Amen brother… But this is why young women go after older men…

>>2160722

Exactly… and if they leave you over you standing up for yourself… well, that's them doing you a favor, because you don't need that kind of negativity in your life.

>>2160677

OH YEAH, and I posted this 100% because of the previous bread where some Christfag posted about porn being detrimental to your relationships and such… and I was like…

"I'm gonna take a break from browsing porn on Chaturbate and Empornium, to tell these fucking faggots what's what…"

And yeah, by the way… this is how my relationship is with my wife now… after YEARS of being a pussy beggar in my own marriage… well, now the rule is like this:

My wife goes to bed naked (except when she's on her period).

I can fuck her whenever I want.

She is not allowed to complain about it.

So seriously, tomorrow morning, I will probably wake up, and wake HER up by fucking her…

And guess what, guys… she LOVES it… she's constantly wet, constantly ready… and cums like a freight train… because she's OWNED and she knows it.

>>2160740

Then you are going down two separate paths, and shouldn't be together.

>>2160784

If he was the only one doing any work outside the home, she sure as hell needed to be doing the work inside the home…

If she's earning as much as him… then the home duties should probably be shared… just sayin. :)

>>2160800

LOL, no… just an example.

I prefer Carrabba's Italian Grill…

>>2160677

Here's a great video that kinda goes along the same lines as what I'm saying here…

Y'all should subscribe to this chick… she's pretty solid on the antifeminism thing… although she's kind of an e-beggar…

The gist of what she talks about here is this…

Committed relationships between men and women, are a contract where each side exchanges what they are lacking in, for what the other has a surplus of.

It comes down to PRODUCTION versus REPRODUCTION.

Women have a lack of productive capacity, and a surplus of reproductive capacity.

Men have the opposite. A surplus of productive capacity, and a lack of reproductive capacity (they don't gestate, lactate, etc)

And so marriage is a CONTRACT, whereby the man provides a LIFETIME of productive surplus to the woman… in exchange for her 20 or so years of REPRODUCTIVE surplus.

She OWNS the excess productive capacity of the man, and uses it to make his house a home.

He OWNS the reproductive capacity of the woman (thus being entitled to her sexually without question)… in exchange for his excess productivity.

This is why when a woman cheats, the man has a right to be pissed! She's giving away to another man, that which she no longer owns to give away!

This is why when a man cheats, the woman has a right to be pissed… He's risking a pregnancy with another woman, which would mean splitting the man's excess productivity with another woman who is not entitled to it! SHE owns that, and he's risking losing HALF of it to some interloper.

Just listen to the video… it's amazing.

>>2160890

LOL, that's a sneaky way of doing it, sure…

"OH MY GOD, YOU ARE SUCH A GOOD GUESSER!"

>>2160907

[[[raises hand]]]

That was me…

I can smell you, beta…

>>2160862

See. that's funny, because it's true that feminism is dying… but there was no "patriarchy" in the first place… It was always a mutual give and take by BOTH of the sexes.

The way I see it, it's like both sexes had two things: Privileges, and Responsibilities.

What feminism demanded was that all men lose their privileges, and all women lose all their responsibilities.

Then the response to that from men was: "Okay, if that's how it's going to be, we want all of OUR responsibilities removed, and all of YOUR privileges removed."

I want all privileges and responsibilities RESTORED… not brought down to a mutually-assured-destruction type of "everyone's at zero".

>>2160933

That's why they have their "girlfriends". :)

Another pro tip for men… if a woman is telling you about some drama in her life, stop her and ask:

"Are you wanting me to know this so I can solve your problem? Or are you just wanting someone to listen and empathize?"

CLARIFY THAT RIGHT AWAY, so you don't try to solve the problem when all she wants is a listener.

>>2160979

Formatting, anon… formatting!

>>2160960

>>2160677

I'm actually thinking about writing a book called "The Traditionalism Argument".

I already wrote a book (it's on Amazon) called "The Libertarian Argument".

The book will contain much of this same advice and argumentation… pointing out the difference between Gender Equality versus a more "ying-yang" type of equity is another goal…

At this point I don't even care if I dox myself… y'all should check out muh book. :)

https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521853177

>>2161021

OMG, no… not even close…

>>2161013

I don't know who that is, but goddamn… she is the most beautiful natural 10 I have ever seen.

>>2161158

Oooh, cool… will look into it.

Also, "The Boy Crisis" by Warren Farrell… I need to read that one too. I hear it's amazing.

>>2161158

Also "The Myth of Male Power" by the same guy.

>>2161179

This is definitely notable if we can find corroboration of the event.

Do you have sauce for this in the form of a verifiable link we can all check?

BTW, this bread is baking very slowly… even with my Oldfag Relationship Advice thread, this bread has lasted a VERY long time without hitting 751…

Must be a slow night for the shills and clowns… maybe they're running out of steam.

[[[knock on wood]]]