Define: My
My Kingdom
My "disciples" are those that are "disciplined" like me. Define: "Me"
No one comes to the Father except through "Me".
Bear your own cross and drink from your own cistern.
It is not about being validated by others, it is about understanding that you and those that are like minded must fight for God's Kingdom if it is to come. You need to apply "The Force". Least you and your children live in a living hell.