That is not an answer related to the question being asked. You can't seem to answer the questions directly because you have a motive and the real right answer is No do not love them as your neighbor and prosecute them and do not give your other child to a murderer. Why? Because you and your rabbis have been getting away with using Christian values against us since times of immortal. Tell your rabbi, Mene Mene Tekal Upharsin, you are about to be measured and weighed for crimes against humanity.
It would be better for you to preach about Mercy and love your neighbor as yourself regardless of crimes or conditions to those that are going to prosecute them, not here. And by the way, I knew you would say, because I quoted what Jesus said in regard to a father's discipline.