GM frens, Happy Humpday
Busy last few days, clearing out my hoarder Mothers house so she can get back in her home. Fell and broke a hip back before Thanksgiving, have one more day of clearing out 1st floor. She comes home tomorrow.
You frenanons stay sharp, keep your head on a swivel and enjoy all that God has blessed you with.
Her 42 yr shack up died in June, I've been separating his from hers and moving his to the barn. His Daughter will be getting all of that. Hauled out 33 boxes of books alone. His is now out and hers is being condensed. Trash and excess is going out. She will be pissed, I do not care. It's this way or she goes in an assisted living home and she never see her home or belongings again. What I'm leaving anyway. 🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂
I have POA. She already knows she is at a point where it could go one way or the other. She is 87 yrs old, very tiny and fragile. We have a very strained relationship as it is. I will see how she does at home next few days. Then discuss it with my 2 older brothers. Still dealing with significant others family and probate. A lot to expect from one person, but I'm doing it.
She is wanting to give up as it is. I know she is dealing with a lot of first, and with that I'm sure there is some serious depression going on. I do my best to be supportive, but I won't sugar coat anything to her. She understands the changes need made, for her to go to her home. She can't afford to stay at a care home, so she going home tomorrow. If she gets worse I will have to do what is best.for her. That means an assisted living home. I'd have to sell her house and contents just to afford to pay for her care, her Medicare and Advantage Blue Cross isn't really worth a damn. They have been denying her care , I believe due.to her age. She has been healthy her entire life. Up until now.
That's been the goal. She is having to buy out the significant other half's daughter, on the property and house. Her money will be tight, ergo she needs to be in the house. So whatever needed be done to accomplish that, that I what we are doing. Have a good day anon, I have an hour drive ahead, to get back to her house. Long day,