I prefer the old ways and stages to spelt woman. Bitch, slut, whore, and the infamous cunt.
But that was while on the club scene.
Once married, preferably not from club stock, terminology would change to hun, babe, sweetie, and the ONLY crossover from club. Bitch.
Used only when you're going to divorce proceedings or the divorce may preceed you earlier, and never in front of the children.
Best way I have found to avoid it all. Never drink, do drugs, and club.