That's why you need God first, before you get involved in debates and arguments with others.
I'm saying that if you're living by the promises of strangers then you will be often disappointed. If, however, you live by the promises of God then the failures of strangers won't matter nearly as much to you.
There is a real God though. Many imitators who see themselves standing above all things, yet truth is still truth regardless of how strangers bastardize it in an effort to raise themselves up.