so sorry Anon, I pray for you and your child. I have been through this with a grandchild, we went to court and took possession of her, loudly and made a scene when they took her from her dad (for no reason, the mom was on drugs and not being responsible). They were going to giver her to this couple we did not know and they had a major creep factor.
Texas here, second to California in the losing of kids through the system. It was a total nightmare. get a good lawyer is all i can tell you… but we look back and see how close we were to a disaster and our baby getting molested or forever lost.