Anonymous ID: 60a6dd Sept. 9, 2025, 3:42 a.m. No.23567191   ๐Ÿ—„๏ธ.is ๐Ÿ”—kun   >>7193 >>7194 >>7201

>>23567186

the apostles were a screwed up crew, just like usโ€ฆ

We were never supposed to be perfect, just becoming better.

 

God didn't use the best, because they had less to learn, or needed less guidance, he chose those who could carry his word the best way.

Think of how people talk when they drink, and those stories are then, spread around, more like that, than 12 saintly guys.

Anonymous ID: 60a6dd Sept. 9, 2025, 3:49 a.m. No.23567203   ๐Ÿ—„๏ธ.is ๐Ÿ”—kun

>>23567193

my brother hung with a very nasty person, but there was a reason, he took the bastard down for abusing children.

That was his main goal, and no one knew it, but me.

Enemies closer kind o' deal.

But, your narrative has no power.

Anonymous ID: 60a6dd Sept. 9, 2025, 3:57 a.m. No.23567212   ๐Ÿ—„๏ธ.is ๐Ÿ”—kun   >>7218

>>23567210

I had a friend, who smoke pcp, she didn't look like herself anymore, I gave her those types of harsh words, said don't come near me anymore, until you've cleaned up your act. Those words kept haunting her, til she did.

Tough love isn't a bad thing, being a kind enabler, is.

whatever it takes.

Anonymous ID: 60a6dd Sept. 9, 2025, 4:19 a.m. No.23567241   ๐Ÿ—„๏ธ.is ๐Ÿ”—kun

>>23567235

sometimes it's shock that causes someones actions, and shocking words, may help, snap them out of it.

If not, you set healthy boundaries, that are not healthy for her to be around at this time.

win-win.

Shunning is the act of sending someone out into the wilderness, to think of their actions. At first there's nothing but blame, until they become honest with themselves, and begin to see their own errors. Should they fess up, come back and apologize, that's acceptable, but if the excuses start up again, well there's the door, and shunning begins again.

Anonymous ID: 60a6dd Sept. 9, 2025, 4:33 a.m. No.23567259   ๐Ÿ—„๏ธ.is ๐Ÿ”—kun   >>7262 >>7266

>>23567255

you're being kind parents, in the long run, to her. No one wants to be mean, and you aren't, you are waking her up, to her own flaws, but if she digs in her own heels, and stays mean, you too, have to put your foot down, for the health of the whole. You aren't doing anything, her actions are. You are being kind, in all honesty. I'm praying God opens your heart and eyes, and she sees the fixes that will ultimately make herself happy, because mean is miserable internally.

Anonymous ID: 60a6dd Sept. 9, 2025, 4:54 a.m. No.23567287   ๐Ÿ—„๏ธ.is ๐Ÿ”—kun   >>7297

>>23567282

anything new, takes time to get used to, like I said, it's not mean, but new, so it feels foreign and mean. Once you begin to see results, you'll tailor your speech in more and more effective ways, as you see the power you taking charge has. You'll do just fine. And those feelings, are just because it's a new way being used.

 

>>23567284

no, the guy probably can't get street drugs, and his issues are over the top.

Anonymous ID: 60a6dd Sept. 9, 2025, 5:42 a.m. No.23567392   ๐Ÿ—„๏ธ.is ๐Ÿ”—kun

>>23567375

it sounds like ptsd, which waits for the brain to be just right to start dealing with issues. If you had a bad childhood, or bad happenings, that habit from the child, which are not adult well thought out, responses, causes the snap back, not thinking about consequences, sort of like, jumping from one hot frying pan into the other. The adult part should begin to take charge, but that inner child must trust those decisions, and when it does, you begin to heal, and apologize for your part in other problems, make sense?