Forgiveness is a powerful weapon. it frees yourself from jail and the tormentors Matt 18. But miracles happen because you release the person to be directly dealt with by God, El‘ Shaddai. It is not uncommon for the perpetrator to humbly repent or be dealt with harshly, ie death, destruction, disease. We are commanded to forgive and bless. This is different from healthy boundaries. i can forgive but not let them near me or my family.