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No just asking the question again because no one wants to answer it, because it is hard to reconcile what Jesus said about forgiveness, then consider that he asked his disciples to fight for him, nor about admonishing and forgiving a child murderer in hopes that he doesn't kill your other child. They cannot reconcile because they really do not understand scripture and like I said there are 3 reasons for quoting forgiveness passages:
To be seen as pious
Because that is how religious scholars explained it
Used as a weapon to avoid accountability