Scenario A:
Be anyone at work, male or female
Man has a problem with you, real or no
You don’t realize you made one
Man wants to fix problem
Man says ‘hey can you not do that again? Because etc’
You: ‘oh, sorry, etc’
Problem solved
Productivity barely a ripple
Scenario B:
Be anyone at work, male or female
Woman has a problem with you, real or no
You don’t realize you made one
Woman talks to everyone else BUT you
Woman wants supporters, not to have problem fixed
Situation escalates
You have no idea what’s going on
Gossip grows the problem
Problem never fixes and never dies
Can reach an endless cycle of sabotage as slighted woman builds an emotional support army
Productivity fubar
There are no girls on the internet, so there are never any girl bosses, let alone woman ceos who go out of their way to never hire another woman.