So I been married to basically this ideology that these people are doing as ag extremist woman and now they are saying they will ruin my life what time I have left to have a family. They want to say they are worried I would marry an 18 year old woman? Why is this their business? This is the problem they are an adult. I am not saying this is what I will do but since this is their fear they waste years of my life yet I have not dated anyone this old since I was with in 1 years of this age myself. How is this making any sense at all. This is now the issue in this respect so do as the woman say or they ruin your life.
I personally would likely want a woman after college ok likely 25 to my age. This where they want to get involved and say let’s find him woman his age this is then where I dated a woman 6 years older then me for almost 6 months seriously and stop saying I am not ready to do this as I need to finish something telling them to wait and when I get back we can be serious more. They chose not to stay with me… this is how it worked out. They are likely better off with someone else and a family because of the choices I made not to hold on to them to long as they wanted this in this way. I did not want them sabotaging things in what I wanted to do as I need to make standard that was far higher then normal in this aspect. Ok it show cases how intelligent I actually am in some respects ok.
I want to be clear I gave them a choice in all of this talking mature in this aspect telling her she may still have a family. This may not be as soon as she wanted is all with me…
She made her choice ok.
I did not thing wrong she likely still had favorable things to say about me and me to her. I wish them well and I am sure they will make a good wife or husband in this way to some one just not me ok.