>You decide who you let into your life. Free will has much power.
Do you really decide? They have free will too, right? We do not choose our fights, but whether we have the will to fight or not when evil comes knocking. We must stand for those that can't.
New age thinking like from the book The Secret, explains that we are the masters of our own ship and if you experience something negative in your life, it is because you willed it to happen. This has always been a half truth at best or completely false. This book was designed to take the blame off of the aggressors and puts the blame on the innocent. Remember your Oath. But to do that, you must remember the Most High God.