The "black pill" is just about the dumbest philosophy a person can hold. By it's very nature it's impossible to have such an outlook without living a sheltered life, which really invalidates the whole philosophy, if you're being sheltered by others who care about you enough to do such a thing even while you're being so childish.
Whatever you struggle with, if your focus isn't on seeking something better then you've lost the plot entirely. No matter what others may do, that you are even capable of reading this is proof that you are still capable of moving, and thus are capable of choosing something better than defeatism.