anon, you were trying to be a messenger to someone who WAS NOT INVOLVED in something that she could no comprehend.
you should not be angry at her. Did she really make a tresspass or was she just too overwhelmed and not ready to hear the bad news you tried to convey?
Some people will never accept the kinds of revelations about the depravity of bad people, but those people who can't hear these bad reports are not themselves involved in the abomination and horrible behavior.