If you plan to search for a wife at church.
A Christian woman.
You better have the following.
Money.
A nice car
Clothing of some style
A home
A well paying job of respectable stature.
A degree.
A hobby of cool interest
Worldly aspirations
Some athletic body ability.
The Christian’s will judge you on the fruits of your worldly labor.
Living off grid or alone with a spiritual mindset and denouncing the world won’t bring them in.
Now you may find the anon who claims the opposite as this is the internet and everyone has it all and knows it all. But it’s rare. Mostly fabricated or as they say edited and or redacted.