Step 1 is to realize you’ve been trying too hard

Step 2 is to be cool with just letting down your guard

Step 3 is to agree that not everyone is gonna like you

Step 4 is to coming to terms that’s just something you’ve gotta fight through

Step 5 is a deep dive below who you think you’re supposed to be

Step 6 is to identify the areas with which you do not agree

Step 7 is to feel the tension that authenticity often brings

Step 8 is to be ok if no one listens while you sing

Step 9 is when you find your sense of self and are at peace

Step 10 is when you genuinely believe there’s no one else you’d rather be.