I may have to apologize to duellists. It's a bit of an alien concept for me, but through further reading I'm coming to appreciate there is a rather significant division within society between those with positive and those with negative outlooks on the overall picture.
Considering this perspective also shines more light on something which has long bothered me about online discourse, as social spaces are divided by left/right political sensibilities, and so regardless of where you are there is a blending of positive and negative outlooks, often without clarity for the participants.