I actually left this realm, and this is not true, but what you believe will happen to you after death, for a least a little while, although it can feel like eternities since time doesn't exist in most realms, IS what is going to happen to you.
And it's FAR better to face your issues while you are healthy than on your death bed, and far better to do it on your death bed, as bad as it is, than to take it into the next realm.
My gatherings. But…Maybe it's not the same for everyone?? I can't say.