>I've join the club of having my family think I am insane, even my better half.
Welcome to the outside of Fantasy Land. What took you so long? Ether way, tell them nothing that you can't back up with proof. If they take it in AND ask questions, keep going. If they reject the proof or refuse to even look into it, they don't want the Truth. Stop there. They may or may not catch on & catch up in the future.