>>2715173 pb
She was 300lbs when we got married, I was the only boy to give her the time of day. She has someone else she'd like to date but that person is quite overweight and won't give her the time of day. He might be ready to at this point in time as they're both older now. She's now 220lbs so she has lost weight but hasn't changed much mentally.
I'm very hard of hearing and the child of a single mom- my dad never told me much about women nor did my mom's longtime boyfriend and I never picked up on women's hints that they were interested in me. Now that I'm older I've figured out a lot of things.
I'm also tired of being the house husband and when I do work I get yelled at because nothing is getting done around the house. She's gotten into the mentality that she has to have a job so she can go to the city and blow money on shopping every payday. No planning for the future, I keep telling her to save $200 every check so she can buy a $2000 car in a few months and in 3 years she's never once set aside the $200 out of a $800 check. FWIW I pay all the utilities around here.
>If she doesn't admire you anymore, or you've stopped adoring her, then there's yer problem.
Excellent advice.