spoopy!
Sounds like a born-into-the-club member.
You'll get used to it, because you have to keep it from happening to your own children and grandchildren. I have heard the stories of friend who had a sib molested by a neighbor, only to be given to the priest to "counsel" him. It was just a grooming line. Priest continued it. Parents adored the Priest right up to his death. Can't sleep? Pray harder. Just make it a straight appeal to the TOP. Millstones, baby, millstones.