Wow, you are fucking retarded. I've been sober for almost 20 years now, got sober through AA, although I avoid clubhouses and meetings, politics infests everything. I learned what I needed to be sober and productive through that. And I got sober in a larger metropolitan area, I don't know anyone that's been "compromised" outside of their disease working on them. You should kindly kys, slowly and painfully.
If you get her into AA, tell her to stick with the women and avoid the men. Not all people that get sober or attend meetings have the purest intentions. Trust is earned, she will be "safer" finding a group of women to help her along.
Sober 20 years.
Ignore 2ae0bc, obviously not speaking from experience. I've been sober 20 years, have had relapses. Your'e dad's story is not uncommon. Alcoholism is a disease of Mind, Body (physical need / symptoms), and spirit. If you can't rein these in, or you "don't work the program", there is a good chance of failure. Those that don't get sober mentally and spiritually tend to be "loners". There is nothing secret about AA you could find an "open" meeting and attend yourself to see what it's about.
Pervy old dudes, and chicks fresh out of treatment looking to 13th step sure, never met any spooks though….
Egggsactly. it's called contempt prior to investigation. You see that here a lot.