There are people (women and men) who focus on physical appearances. Sad fact. They will go into debt to appear successful. I divorced a guy because he would spend and spend and spend. I'm a saver and that seriously stressed me out.
They say the best partners for savers (like me) are either savers or investors. Luckily for me I found a saver/investor and am so much happier now.
It depends on what you need to be happy.