They can't because:
Weight lifting = toxic masculinity
US national parks = Reminder of the slaughter of Indians or something
Working on cars = toxic masculinity
Cleaning your house, your room, your parents basement = They never cleaned in their lives, and hate their parents. Why start now?
Grilling with friends = All their friends have real lives, jobs, families. Also grilling is racist or toxic masculinity or something.
10 years ago, 20-year-old me thought "beware the police state, what about my rights?!" but with the behavior of the Left since then, 30-year-old me is now like "Why isn't the police state here yet?"
I absolutely agree, and things took a major nosedive during the back half of Hussein's presidency. I found a good one just in time and married, she's more libertarian than anything, but even she has some bluepilling that needs overcoming.
Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against either of those things, it just seems that's how the Left views them.