>>3139128 (LB)
Sorry, you wanted every post of yours examined in the context of the first, I get that.
It does not work that way here. I did not know you were talking about names, but you went strait to feminist propoganda about "seeing as an individual"
That looks really bad (brainwashed) all by itself, in the context of a guy saying a woman was stupid just for keeping her maiden name, I can see that. However if a woman is doing that just for the reason you state (insecurity about being seen as an individual) it is a good flag for identifying a femnazi.
What does it accomplish to hold on to the name her mom took
If you are going to flout the conventions of your own culture, you ought to accomplish something
YOU ARE RIGHT ABOUT THE NAME THING
Plenty of good reasons to keep a maiden name other than making a pointless statement about being seen as an individual: , like if you are published. It would almost be silly to lose name recognition for being married. New Yorkers who had an original Dutch name on their mom's side used to hyphenate (males too) so that people would know they descended from original New Amsterdam people.
You are the one who needs to get your mind right regarding feminism though.