Information, and thus power, is taken and not given. If you want this outcome, you must take it, not beg for it.
How is stating a true fact concern fagging? When a person is begging, at least let's all be honest about the fact that they're begging. Trying to meme conditions upon someone who actually does have the information, and thus power, is really just bad form. Accept the goodwill given by others and be thankful. How is that concern fagging? Eat a dick.