>>3499827 (lb)
>What life are they going to have?
A dark one if you are their role model and continue to wallow in self pity.
Life is suffering and there is no escaping that fact.
Everyone you know will eventually die, including yourself.
So, what do you do when faced with that truth? You accept it.
Only by accepting it voluntarily, can you begin to rise above it.
You can't receive anything good in your life until you are grateful for what you already have, regardless of how trivial or small it may seem.
So count your blessings…