Then cash out. Cash out of the shit show that owns your feels and wellbeing. There are many ways to cash out for anons. The smallest being an off grid self sustainable vehicle or boat, the biggest being a move onto a parcel of paid for land and out of suburbs or city. If you reach a point where your perception is cognitive dissonance in any relationship, you fight for recognition first and if that fails you leave. Leaving a bad fight that taxes your spirit and energy daily, offers a new place for spirit and energy.