So far this is unleavened bread.
Better free than slave. MIGTOW good. Clear your head. Show your stuff, then commit. You'll get a better quality partner. And if you don't, the ones who would were parasites anyway.
Stay out of bars.
My only gran died at the same hour as my dog. My father died the next day. It was a hit, really messed me up. Hit me at "the wrong time". Odd, how oblivion happens at the most crucial time in your life.
It wasn't my first evil crisis but I managed my mess for a long time, I reasoned that,if God wanted me dead, I wouldn't be here. I slogged through.
Eventually I rediscovered my roots and came back doing what I love. Value added partner, with inhuman patience.
I have and continue to change the world.
God bless.