Maybe Toots and QT Sibel belong together?
Concernfagging in a marriage is probably a good thing. If they were "mehfagging", that would possibly be not such a good thing.
I know - caring is creeping and whatever.
MARRIAGE! :)
Unsolicited thought: There's a lot to be said for asking why whatever it is they're nagging about is important to them. (Nicely - because we'll assume you want to figure out how to proceed and help spouseanon learn that they don't have to nag.)
Also: The tune-out method works pretty well. :) Not 100% - just enough.
funny - this song goes thru my head every single time an anon demands "DECLAS" or public execution, etc.
<3